I am not sure if you were flirting with me or not. And being mostly straight, I wasn't sure where it would go. Nevermind the difference - you were AA, maybe in your 30s? Well built. And I am an older white guy (in my 50s). 5'8" and in reasonably decent shape. And it may well have been the alcohol that was being drunk.
So I don't know if it was real.
But I have thought about it since and I wanted to put this out there, just in case - just in case you see it and it rings a bell.
And put "just in case" so I know the response is not spam
do NOT contact me with unsolicited services or offers